Elemental Parenting

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When it comes to kids and being online, there is no way to be sure that they aren’t going to come into contact with (accidentally or intentionally) inappropriate material. There are some things, though, that we can do to help our children cultivate habits that minimize the amount of digital fodder they come in contact with.

One of the easiest ways to help your children stay safe online is to limit the accessibility of online content.

• Content Filters
  Content filters are programs that keep certain sites and I’m not a huge fan of content filters. They are unreliable and easily bypassed. There are different types including software that you put on your computer, parental locks (sort of like the V-chip on your TV), web-based filters, and Internet Service Provider-based filters. This is a very passive form of monitoring accessibility. I lean more towards helping your children develop their own internal filters. You can check out this Wikipedia article for more info on content filters.

• Keep Computers in Public Areas
  One of the easiest ways to prevent intentional access of inappropriate material and a way to deal with stuff that pops up inadvertently is to keep computers in the open. Personally, I don’t think it is a good idea for children to have a computer in their room that is connected to the internet. By having internet-connected computers out in the open, everyone is able to see what is being accessed. It is also easy to help your children deal with any inappropriate content that pops up.
• Budgeting Internet Time
  It is very easy to lose track of time and wander aimlessly while online because there is no definite stopping point when you are online. I don’t know about your children, but mine begin to press links and buttons and enter random search terms when they start getting bored online… they wander. It is very easy to stumble across inappropriate material if you wander aimlessly online. In order to prevent that from happening, the best thing to do is to budget how much time your children spend online (budgeting online time is also beneficial for other things as well). Children should not have free reign of online access until they have learned how to budget their online time themselves.

Those are just some ideas when it comes to limiting the accessibility of online content. Next, we’ll look at helping children be intentional with their use of the internet.

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