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When disasters like the one in Haiti happen, sometimes it is hard for us as parents to know how to help our children respond. How do we explain why bad things happen? How do we help our children process the images they see on TV and online?
I think the best thing we can do is listen to our children. Give them an opportunity to express what they are feeling whether it be through art or words. Ask them how they feel about what they are hearing and seeing. Ask them how they think God feels about what is going on. Ask them how they think Haitians feel about what is going on. Listen to them. Don’t worry about correcting their views. Let them express what they are thinking and feeling.
Now, here’s what I believe is a key thing to do in helping children learn how to respond to the darkness of pain and suffering… ask your children how they think they can help. Take their suggestions seriously. Take action as a family. Give to organizations like Compassion International, World Vision or the American Red Cross who are mobilizing teams to aid in Haiti. Pray as a family for what is going on there. Allow your children to pray. Find ways to express hope and sympathy to the people in Haiti.
When darkness rears its ugly head, which it always does, help your children to respond by shining the light of hope.
We’d love to hear how your family has responded to the crisis in Haiti. Please leave a comment and share your ideas.
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